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Each of you have spent many hours during the past year
planning, meeting, camping, giving service to others,
selling cookies, and the list goes on. More than likely
you often gave up more glamorous activities or left
things undone because you made the commitment to be
a troop leader.
First of all, thank you for your valuable time and
for sharing your knowledge and skills along with the
patience and flexibility to meet the demands that troop
leadership requires. Secondly, have you taken the time
to reflect on how important your role is today in making
the difference in the life of a young girl? I hope you
realize just how significant your role is whether you
are leading a Daisy troop for the first time or advising
a group of Senior Girl Scouts.
Recently, I attended a statewide “Partners in
Education” conference. The conference focus was
the “40 Developmental Assets” that a child/adolescent
needs in order to have the best chance to succeed in
adulthood. Dr. Peter Benson and his colleagues at the
Search Institute have spent many years in practical
research to identify the external and internal supports
that children and youth need from their parents, extended
family, faith-based institutions, educators, and the
community. Research says that there are 20 internal
assets and 20 external assets. Over time some startling
statistics have emerged. The chart below shows statistics
of high-risk behavior patterns as they relate to the
40 Developmental Assets.
Every girl who comes to your troop meeting brings her
own unique set of interests, strengths, challenges,
peer pressures, stresses, and family and social dynamics.
Your role as a troop leader is so important in the life
of every girl. You may not see the
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results today, tomorrow, or ever. Rest assured your
involvement and commitment will provide many of those
needed assets that will pay off positive dividends in
the years to come.
Troop leaders can
- Support young people with caring and attention.
- Guide them toward a life based on positive values.
- Empower then in their abilities to help others.
- Set reasonable boundaries with high expectations.
- Help them develop social competencies and life
skills.
- Inspire them to use their time in constructive
ways.
- Spark their commitment to learning.
- Celebrate their uniqueness and affirm their positive
identity.
(used with permission from Search Institute)
On a recent errand trip, a young woman greeted me
with graciousness and a warm smile. For some reason,
I told her I was with the Girl Scouts. She said, “I
was a Girl Scout and I had a great leader. She was so
much fun.” She went on to explain, “I’m
from a small town in East Texas. Girl Scouts made such
a difference in my life. We got to do things in Girl
Scouts that we never would have gotten to do any other
way.” I left my errand walking about two feet
off the ground. There’s so much more to the story,
but for privacy’s sake, I’ll just tell you
I knew her leader and that I probably saw the young
woman as a Brownie at a day camp. So I know first hand
that a special leader in this Council made a very positive
and perhaps life-changing experience in this young women’s
life. She’s now a wife, a mother, successful in
her work, and giving back. I don’t know how many
and which one of those 40 Assets Girl Scouting provided
her, but her testimony says it did.
As a troop leader, you provide a wonderful support
system. At this time of year, you are being asked to
continue your commitment to troop leadership. Please
reflect on what you have done to provide those essential
“building blocks” for the girls in your
troop and “Say You’ll Stay!” |